I was 47 when I had my prostate removed, I did not handle the following feelings well. I was angry. I took it out on my wife and kids. That was 5 years + ago and now the wife doesn't want me, the girls 16 18, don't talk to me and life is hard.
I have good friends in my life and work hard as a tree man. My depression has grown as my house is on the market, and my family will soon be no more.
All I can say is men, talk with your family about your feelings and don't bottle them up and turn to the bottle to ease your loss.