Secondary infertility

Already have children, but are having difficulty fulfilling your family building dreams? Share your hopes, doubts, and questions with others experiencing the same things.


desperately needing to vent!

  • By Katilac07 · New reply August 13, 2013
  • 3 replies
  • I just found this support group and joined today, best step I have taken so far. I guess I have felt so alone dealing with trying to conceive another child that I didn't even want to reach out to the ...

Positive ANA

  • By Tlej2011 · New reply July 25, 2013
  • 10 replies
  • Does anyone have a positive ANA (antinuclear antibodies) in their blood? If so, is your RE doing anything for it? I'm not sure why this subject is so controversial among RE's. My RE doesn't believe that ...

Requesting practical steps on how to manage dissapointments

  • By Pendulum · New reply July 8, 2013
  • 8 replies
  • I have been trying for my second for the past 2.5 years naturally....recently got my infertility work up done....low ovarian reserve...recommended to start iui...probably will start late August....but ...

numb :(

  • By beautifullybroken426 · New reply June 26, 2013
  • 1 reply
  • Hi, im new to this site and am hoping it will help me some.. i am having a really difficult time with not being able to get pregnant due to my husbsnd having a low sperm count and than last week the urologist ...

Rheumatoid Arthritis & Infertility

  • By nif533 · New reply June 22, 2013
  • 3 replies
  • I had an easy first pregnancy and have an amazing 3-year-old boy. For the past year and a half we've been trying to have another child. We are both 33 so I consider us young still. The only thing that's ...


  • By Seven77 · Posted June 8, 2013
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  • Pls what kind of treatment can I use to treat Active 35% Motility rate and also STAPH AUREUS ...

Unexplained Infertility - what else to ask?

  • By lildecker · New reply June 7, 2013
  • 9 replies
  • We are blessed to have a beautiful 5 year old daughter, who we conceived basically on the first try. When she was 2 1/2 we started trying again, but month after month no success. After nearly a year our ...

POAS too early?

  • By 0ver40teacher · New reply May 28, 2013
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  • I am soooooo bummed. I POAS early this morning on 7dp5dt and got a bfn. I just finished a week of "house arrest" and am allowed to go back to work today but I am just so incredibly sad. I read on many ...

Nervous to get pregnant!

  • By ML2013 · New reply May 24, 2013
  • 5 replies
  • I should start out by saying I am not currently trying to get pregnant. I am getting married in November and the thought of having babies has come up a lot lately.... However, my sister (who is 6 years ...

One egg 50/50 chance

  • By navis · New reply May 23, 2013
  • 6 replies
  • Hi all I'm so anxious --many cycles and ended up with one egg. GD willing it survives and is healthy till transfer. Undergoing PGD for fragile X. Please pray and send encouragement ...

C section and infertile after

  • By Bargainhunter · New reply May 4, 2013
  • 8 replies
  • Hey, I'm new to this site and new to (acknowledging) infertility. Here is my story in a nutshell. My husband and I got pregnant while using the foam contraceptive, so this was a big surprise to us. After ...

Feeling Alone

  • By porkchop1978 · New reply May 1, 2013
  • 8 replies
  • Hi there. I'll start out with a little background....I'm 34 and my husband is 38. We have a beautiful 2.5 year old little girl who is, obviously, the light of our lives. We tried for 5 months before I ...

Our food

  • By Jessie8 · New reply April 29, 2013
  • 3 replies
  • Monday mornings, yuck. I don't go to work until 3 p.m. As I lay in bed trying to wake up, I feela sort of hopelessness . The house is quiet and I'm left with my anxious thoughts. I know there are a lot ...

Attempting IVF after a 3 year break from 1st attempt

  • By Lisa_Mitchell · New reply April 8, 2013
  • 2 replies
  • Hello all, My husband and I attempted invitro 3 yrs ago, with no luck. It was devastating and it took some time to be able to function normally. My hubby is a paraplegic and due to his injury we are unable ...

Mayan Massage

  • By mamamia428 · New reply April 3, 2013
  • 1 reply
  • Anyone had any experience with Arvigo mayan massage? It's supposed to be good for tilted uterus or prolapse. I read an article about it a while ago and decided to find a practitioner in my area. I'm looking ...

TTC After Cancer

  • By mamamia428 · Posted April 2, 2013
  • 0 replies
  • I'm just wondering if anyone else out there is trying to conceive after having chemo and/or radiation. I went through both treatments after ttc for our second child (no problems getting pg with him) for ...

Secondary infertility

  • By Jaliw85 · New reply March 8, 2013
  • 3 replies
  • I notice that no one discusses infertility but it is so emotionally draining. I have been trying for 7 months and I just start using the ovulation kit. According to the kit I have not ovulated yet. I ...

Memoir About Secondary Infertility

  • By Veronaroast · New reply March 7, 2013
  • 7 replies
  • Making Meant to Be is a memoir about secondary infertility on Amazon. Finally a book that offers insight into the craziness of dealing with infertility after having had one child without any struggle ...

Underweight A problem

  • By LibbaT · New reply February 1, 2013
  • 9 replies
  • Has anyone been told they need to gain weight? I have PCOS and do not have periods. When I started TTC a 18 months ago I weighed 115 and now I have dropped to 110. I cannot seem to gain any weight. I ...

Secondary, AMA and recurrent miscarriage MENTS

  • By MTownsend · New reply January 27, 2013
  • 10 replies
  • Hi ladies, I'm not even sure where to post this, or where to put the MENTS part... I had two early miscarriages, went thru a full RE workup with no real answers, then conceived naturally with acupuncture ...

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