I am having a hard time dealing with my husband's reactions about having another child. He had a vasectomy during his last marriage. I knew about this when we were dating,but also was open about wanting to have a child with him. He seemed on board so that was great. I would not have stayed if he had said there was no chance. We settled our divorces,married, and have settled into a great blended family routine where everyone is comfortable. I felt it was time to discuss having a child and he was totally against it. I was very hurt and could not understand why he would say one thing and mean another. He tells me that I " should leave it up to God." I am so angry with him right now because I feel hurt and betrayed. He made a conscious choice to have a vasectomy and now my only option is to leave it up to God? I am at a loss as to what I can do. Sorry I just need to vent about how I feel today.