So the other night we were shopping for couches and we found one but since he got to pick the style I wanted to compromise and pick the fabric.
It turned into a huge argument and I quickly realized that this argument was not about couches. It was about my wanting to do IVF thinking he was ok with it and his real feelings that IVF is unnatural and we should just wait however long it takes.
I tried to explain to him my reasons about wanting a sibling for my son and needing to try so I can feel normal again and also the facts about infertility. It's been 3+ years and we are unexplained and I do have a 4 year old that was conceived naturally after a couple IUI's. He thinks we should just wait again but I just don't see that kind of miracle happening again. I thought he was on board and now that the meds have been ordered and we have our schedule he wants to change everything.
My questions is how did you explain to your hubby to get him to understand? To get him to realize this isn't about my obsession. I try to talk to him but it's so emotional for me and he just knows that we have gotten pregnant before so we can do it again. HELP!