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dad didnt die of the cancer, but a blood clots in the lungs, and partial phemonia, he was talking and laughing the night b4 then sudenly gasping for air, his oxygen went down to 50 with life support on, it was so sad
I am so sorry for the loss of your dad. May god bless you and keep you safe and comfort you in your grieving. I know he is in a better place now, no pain or discomfort of any kind.
god bless you and your family.
Sandy
thank you sandy, it is the hardest thing ever and seems so unreal, we were just watching movies the other night and eating pop corn
I am SO sorry for the loss of your dad. I pray that God will help you through this difficult time.
***Hugs***
Marylou
thank you mary lou, last week dad was so happy you were cheeringhim on thank you
I'm so sorry to hear that. My dad passed away grasping for air also, I pray you didn't have to see that. It's a sight I will never forget. You will be in my prayers everyday. I try to keep my dad alive by talking about him and keeping the stories alive. That way he's always here. So if you ever want to share a story, I'm hear and I'll listen
God Bless,
Pam
I am so sorry for the loss of your dad. May time and God help you deal with the pain of the loss and replace it with happy memories.
Maribeth
Cherish the memories..they will help you get through the days ahead.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious father. It's very difficult, especially when the evening before he was so very much enjoying your company. You and your family are in my prayers for peace and comfort. Blessings! Brooklynda
My condolences on the loss of your father.
Kelly
thank you all, he fought to the last breath, we did see it, we were with him, had to convise him to go to the er, he hated going, cuase each time, they would say in front of him, how he has cacner and now this or that and we should stop all meds, dad always said wheres your faith and his main words, in god we trust, it makes me more sad cuase, he thought he was being healed, his last move he watched 3 times a night was glory road true story, they played hank senori at his wake and he listend to that last 3 months working out, thank you all and i pray all you have healing and all you caring for your loved ones and please dont give up,
Jane,
I am so sorry about your dad passing away. My prayers go out to you and your family. When my sister died years ago, someone sent a quote that I thought was very comforting..."Where there is love, there is life." ~Ghandi
I am sorry for your loss, sending BIG HUGS YOUR WAY.
Kelly
I am so sorry to hear the news. I hope the warm memories of him can embrace you during this difficult time. Though he may not be physically there, he is always with you in spirit. You are in my thoughts.
Carey
I am so sorry for the loss of your dad. My sympathies and prayers are going to you and your family. I lost my dad 27 years ago to lung cancer. He was about 100 pounds when he died. He is out of his pain and in a better place. Please cherish the memories. They will bring smiles and happiness to you. That is what he would want.
Jen
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my mother years ago to what started out as uterine cancer and ended up in her lungs. Then I lost my father 13 years later (heart attacks). It is very difficult -- but you will always carry memories with you. I will always love my parents and miss them. I have lung cancer also now and know how important it is to have the support around you of someone like you. Your father was very fortunate to have a daughter like you to care so much about him. And I'm sure he knew and knows it.
The Mary Tyler Moore Show that was on TV back, I believe in the 1970s had an award winning show on death. I have always remembered it. Mary Tyler Moore on the show worked at a TV station. Chuckles the Clown from their station died. Everyone in her TV group stated laughing over memories of him. Mary got really offended and was crying and saying to her co-workers how can you laugh at a time like this. Well, they go to the funeral and everyone starts crying except Mary. She starts thinking about all the funny things Chuckles had done and couldn't stop laughing. People started staring at her.
So, laugh, cry, get your feelings out, look at pictures and always carry the beautiful memories of your father with you. I hoped this has helped you a little -- e-mail any time you wish.
Blessings to you and your family,
Caroline (Clewis)
My deepest condolences in the loss of your Dad. I was with my Dad when he passed and I shall forever be thankful I was there to "see him off". We struggle coming into this world so I guess it should not be surprising that we might struggle leaving. But you were there for him when he needed you and he knows that!
((((hugs))))) and warm regards,
Rose
So sorry you have lost your Dad, prayers to you and your family. Huggs, Karen
I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your dad. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers
Sue
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