I am having OHS (sternotomy) on the 22nd at Mayo for a congenital defect that we were unaware of until recently. I'm 33. I am a detail person and want to be able to prepare for the little things that could make my recovery easier. Any suggestions for practicalities like clothing, bras, showering, stairs, coping with an active 4 year old...? I'm blessed to have a ton of support from family and friends, but would like to have as much in place before my surgery as possible. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!