Hi Heart Women sisters,
I am so grateful for finding this website. I am amazed at the amount of support and the knowledge of everyone!
I need some advice and to vent.
We continue to be on a rollercoaster ride regarding the seriousness of my mom's condition. It is just over 4 months since her heart attack. She is asymptomatic but that is the bad thing about heart disease...it can be a silent killer if you don't get the angina warnings. Her last echo test indicated an inferior heart attack in addition to an anterior one...nobody will tell me if this has happened since November or if the hospital's testing and diagnosis missed it. Let's just say that the hospital she had her heart attack in during November has some serious deficits.
My mom is getting a catheterization test this Tuesday morning. This is our 3rd attempt to schedule it. Her insurance is fixed; no major snow storm predicted; and, as of today, her flare up of ischemic colitis does not require hospitalization.
I'd be lying if I told you I wasn't worried. Yes, it's an invasive procedure so there is an element of risk. I asked for the complication percentage at the hospital and got no answer. I can trust God but I can't trust the doctors or hospital completely. While we are at a high volume hospital affiliated with a major medical school, we didn't have the option to schedule the test with a specified doctor. You get whomever is assigned on the day of your test. Now, isn't that nice...a lottery draw of doctors (on an outpatient basis) when it comes to your life! I can understand the randomness in the ER but for outpatient...give me a break! Oh, and did I mention that the website indicated all tests would be done by a faculty member, not a trainee, but the test scheduler told me since it was a teaching hospital, there would be a trainee to assist?! Let's just hope this doctor isn't a major delegator. Gee whiz! The scheduler told me some people insist the trainee not be present during the test which means that a tech or nurse would assist the doctor. Apparently, sometimes he needs more than 2 hands?! How many hands does it take to feed a catheter through an artery for pete's sake?! Sorry, I needed to vent.
Our optimal wish is to have a long window of time to delay the valve surgery until less invasive procedures are mainstream. The last echo retest indicated the valve blockage is worse off than in November so this option seems unlikely. There is also the question of the extent of coronary blockage. Her stress test came back abnormal. We are hoping that if there is coronary blockage, it can be fixed without open heart surgery (e.g, stent, etc). She will also be evaluated for a clinical trial of replacing the aortic valve through a catheter referred to as percutaneous. Unless the doctors take some liberties in bending the criteria to qualify her, I don't think she will be eligible for it. We'll have to wait and see. Our other option would be a minimal incision above the chest bone to replace the valve. However, if she needs coronary artery bypass, they will opt to do the valve replacement with open heart surgery also. Open heart surgery involves risk of mental function decline from being on a heart/lung machine and the trauma of such a surgery can be a major setback for recovery. Then there's always the risk of infection or pneumonia setting in. My mom wants to try the minimally invasive approaches if she qualifies even though it has not been perfected at this point in time.
I try to be very clear and careful of what I am asking God for, in case I ask for the wrong thing. lol I know it will ultimately be his call on what happens so I'll have to learn how to trust him about that. I've heard of stories where someone's cancer disappears before they begin treatment...I've never heard of blocked arteries being unblocked before treatment but I'm sure willing to ask for it! It would make our options so much better.
The gameplan with her cardiologist (before the latest tests) was to get my mom on an intensive rehab program to build up her heart before having surgery. Nevermind that is what I wanted to happen 4 months ago. However, with the latest test results we are wondering if that will still be an option. The cardio wants to wait until "after" the cath test to talk to us about our options. I'm guessing he doesn't want to offer any more hunches before the test as his other ones seemed to be way off mark. This is our third cardio in 4 months.
If my mom does require an invasive procedure, please pray that the doctors on duty be blessed with skill and good decision making abilities. I got their names on Friday and one has only 6 years of experience and the other 17 years. English is not the first language of both these docs! Good grief...that's exactly what I need...trying to figure out what the heck they are trying to say to us when I can barely understand the medical terms in English! I guess it will be a crapshoot as to who gets to work on her though you can bet your life I will try to insist on the one with 17 years. I'm trying not to be unreasonable but there are other interventional cardios with more experience. We would just have to reschedule on another day and the scheduler was not happy when I suggested doing that on Friday.
I've been fighting so hard for her rights all along. I'd hate to stand back now but I guess we will just have to trust that God will take care of it? I already feel like we have delayed this test long enough but the scheduler won't tell me what days my preferred doctor (30 years experience) is scheduled in the test lab! I haven't dismissed the option of showing up in person at the hospital to get this resolved as they didn't want to give me their phone number! They told me everything is handled through the doctor's assistant, not the patient. Maybe I just need to elevate my request to a supervisor?! Well, Wednesday was our second choice of test days but our cardio logistically cannot meet us at the hospital since he is seeing patients at a different location that day. We saw first hand how not much gets done on Fridays and weekends at a hospital so we don't want the test done on Thursday. If they put in a stent it would require an overnight stay for observation. Then, we ruled out Monday since everyone is sluggish from the weekend. Ughhhh...why do some things have to be so difficult?! Any advice on what to do about my concerns? Take a chill pill or be persistent and assert our rights about picking our doctor to do the test and interventional procedure if needed? I don't want to have to schedule another cath procedure if they want to give us the newbie interventionalist.
My mom is trying to put on a brave face but I know her better. I haven't burdened her with my concerns about the test. She is worried enough as is!
Our insurance will let us goto a specialist directly without a referral though the experienced doctors at this hospital require a referral. hmmm I asked her general cardiologist for a referral over a week ago but he has ignored my email. I'm guessing he forwarded it to his nurse and she is ignoring it. Do I insist on speaking to him about this to find out what's up?! There are about 30 docs in this practice so I'm guessing he is having his buddies do the test/procedures instead of letting us specify who we want?!




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