I am so thankful to have stumbled across this website! I am learning so much more in addition to the research from medical journals I'm also doing.
Here is our story...
My mom went into the hospital for blood in her urine and some mild blood discharge on her underwear from the rectum. It turned out to be from hemorrhoids thank goodness but she ended up getting a silent MI in the emergency room several hours later. This fell through the cracks and she was admitted and had a colonoscopy and upper GI done 2 days later.
We found out later on from the hospital records that the telemetry reports indicated major problems shortly after she was admitted but nobody started any cardio workup until 3 days later when her fever shot up to 103. They discovered at that time she had severe aortic stenosis and will need surgery to fix it. They also discovered ischemic colitis from the colonoscopy and a hiatal hernia from the upper GI.
We also found out that this hospital has major problems and lost their Medicare license for 4 months last year. She doesn't want to go back to this hospital and it is the only one her PCP goes to.
So, while I'd rather not switch PCPs midcourse before this major surgery we have few options unless we want to go back to this hospital.
We haven't talked to any surgeons yet but we are running into problems between her PCP and cardiologist recommendations and diagnosis.
The first cardio assigned to us at the hospital could not answer our questions directly. He suspected my mom had endocarditus. Note that her PCP didn't even tell her to take an antibiotic before any dental procedures even though she has had a slight heart murmur for the past 18 years. The cardios notes say she had congestive heart failure after the MI but never told us. The PCP claims it was pneumonia. With her high fever after the gastro procedures, severe fluctuations between chills and hot flashes in the hospital, blood in the urine, and dental work done the prior week, I tend to favor the cardio's opinion. The cardio acted like he didn't know when she had her MI and the PCP admitted it happened the first day.
Our second cardio (new hospital with good reputation for valve surgery outcomes per healthgrades.net) wanted to do a catheter test immediately. He is an interventional cardiologist. Her PCP says the procedure is too risky to do before six months after an MI but he also told me on the phone that he would have more time to spend with her if she waited that long. The important thing is that her heart has had a chance to stabilize and after 3.5 months since her MI her blood pressure and lungs are okay. She doesn't present with any other symptoms. The first cardio told me he thought she had major blockage even after doing only an echo test. The PCP thinks her heart attack was not caused by blockage at all but by her stenosis.
We will be visiting a third cardio tomorrow. (hospital with good reputation that might be able to do minimally invasive valve replacement if she doesn't need bypass from blocked arteries) He treats geriatric patients and we will see if he thinks she needs immediate testing or not. My mom is quite frail and doesn't move around well due to arthritis and has a very low pain threshhold. I don't think the other cardios are taking that into consideration.
I feel so bad for her having to switch PCPs but her current one told us if she had the surgery done at a hospital other than his, he didn't want her as a patient any longer. At our 6 week post hospital follow up visit he had refused to give us a referral to a cardio from another hospital or authorize an ultrafast CT scan. I later found out his hospital doesn't have one setup yet.
I switched her insurance so we could see specialists without his permission.
My mom is in no hurry to have her surgery and would prefer to wait until the weather gets warmer and nicer in the spring. There's also fewer colds and flu going around. So, for now we are just gathering information and visiting doctors at a snails pace. I've already called the surgeon's offices and there is not as long of a wait to see them thank goodness.
In the meantime I'm trying not to worry about my mom being a ticking timebomb since we haven't ruled out blocked artery disease.
My mom doesn't care for specialists much so it is difficult to explain to her that it might be better to follow the advice of a specialist over her geriatric PCP. She just thinks they are in a rush to treat her problem without taking everything else into account. Of course, I'm certain she's also worried she won't survive the surgery especially if they have to do bypass with it.
My mom is a worrier so maybe she should just wait to find out how much blockage she has the night before her surgery. The problem though is that it would affect her choice of surgeons and the hospital she goes to. She, of course, doesn't want her chest cracked open if they can do it through the ribcage.
She's also worried that if she has the catheter test, they will want to operate on her immediately before she has a chance to meet the valve surgeons. I try not to scare her that it might be that serious but I feel like we are in the dark right now without a blockage test.
Everything will ultimately be "her" decision but I want to make sure she makes an informed one and has all the facts and risks to consider when making it.
Sorry for the long post but I felt all the details were necessary. lol
Maybe if I can show her what doctor (PCP vs. cardiologist) most women would rely upon to make up their mind, it will help her.
At this point, I am just offering it up in God's hands to take care of her till she makes up her mind. I don't want to stress her out like I'm feeling about the whole situation.




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