This is my first post. I looked online to find a site where I could express my concerns and hopefully, some good information that will help other people with what appears to be a universal problem these days. That problem is: How do you get the best patient care possible from your physician? I find myself coaching and advising people several times a week on how to do this. I think that it is absolutely shameful that this is necessary to do so, and I place the blame on the physicians. Patients should not have to go to the lengths that they do just to receive a correct diagnosis and proper treatment from people who have spent many years studying and preparing to deliver that treatment, especially when the patients are paying such a high price for this "failure to provide adequate and proper treatment."
My point is this. It is so important to recognize when one should stay and continue to see a physician and when one should change physicians and start fresh. When I coach people on how to have a productive meeting with their physicians, I ask them to make a list of their symptoms, the severity of their symptoms, when their symptoms started , and of course, any and all medications including over the counter meds that they are taking. I emphasize the word "change" because if there is a change in your health, use that word. It is a trigger word that will get the physician's attention. I appreciate that the physician's time is valuable and so is the patient's. If a clear description of the symptoms are written down and handed to the physician, then neither the physician or the patient will get side-tracked by non-essential information. This helps the physician focus on the illness and establishes the patient as informed and a willing, helpful participate in their care.
I encourage everyone who is computer savvy to research their symptoms on reputable medical sites; not to play doctor and self-diagnose, but to educate themselves well enough to recognize when the diagnosis does not appear to fit the illness. Asking questions of the physician so that explanations can be made helps the patient understand why the physician has reached the particular diagnosis that he/she has reached. This reassures the patient and it also serves to make the well educated physician take the time to do his/her job properly. Everybody wins. Of course, if the explanation does not make sense, then it is time to talk with a friend who is a nurse or someone who has the background knowledge to properly assess whether the information appears to be correct. If there is doubt, get a second opinion from another physician not associated in any way with your current physician, especially when the illness is serious. When should one leave a physician and look for a new one? Leave when the physician you have will not give you a proper amount of his/her time and does not take a real history. Leave when the physician does not like being asked questions about your illness or diagnosis. You have every right to ask and you should. Leave when it is obvious that what you are saying is being ignored by the physician. Leave when you realize that getting paid means more to your physician than your well-being does. Good physicians do not mind answering questions and they enjoy having informed patients because it makes their job easier in the long run. Their patients will be more compliant and will work as a team member with the physician to improve their health.






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