Sex after 50?

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Sex after 50?

By Calvin
Posted September 25, 2008 at 10:37 pm · 3 replies
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No sexual problems when younger, except a wife who wasn't interested. Divorced and celebate for 5 years. Remarried, but little libido. No ED problem, but ejaculation is just a dribble, and it's over. Don't feel anything. Not what you would call a climax. Dr. says "That's what happens when you turn 50." Checked testosterone--in the normal range.
On antidepressants. Quit taking them, but no difference. Have sleep apnea, which leaves me tired and may explain the lack of libido. But what about the small volume of semen and lack of feeling anything. Is that really normal at 50??

CK

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By xena1515
Posted September 27, 2008 at 7:28 am
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I would say that is definitely not normal. I would advise you to seek a second opinion and/or see a urologist. Have you had your prostate checked and PSA levels evaluated? I do know that as men age some men have prostate enlargement which can cause problems. I don't think your Dr's comment was appropriate. I am really surprised he was not concerned and wanting to refer you to a urologist. This is definitely not normal to have such a problem as yours at such a young age. Definitely get a second opinion and seek the help of a urologist. They specialize in those kinds of problems every day. Some people seem to have the attitude that just because your 50 your old and your life is over. Your in your prime. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

By Calvin
Posted September 28, 2008 at 3:53 pm
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Prostate is normal and PSA level is normal. What else can a urologist do?

CK

By xena1515
Posted September 28, 2008 at 6:40 pm
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A urologist is a physician who has specialized knowledge and skill regarding problems of the male and female urinary tract and the male reproductive organs. By going to a urologist you can describe all of your symptoms and concerns and he will know what all needs to be checked and what tests need to be done to see what can be done to correct the problem. They deal with these kinds of problems every day and should know exactly what can be done to help.

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