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Im 13 and im scared to have the baby

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Hi im 13 and im scared to have a baby. I also wanted to know what is the best position to get a boy baby and what position for a girl.Anyway i dont know if the epidoral hurts and should i get that or do when the doctor cuts the cord do you feel anything.


Thanks.....Nyree

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well im replying to my own that i heard that yo get a boy you do it from the back and to get a girl you hit it from the front thats what my boyfriend and all my friends said to me and it was in a magazine about 3 years ago i dont know if its true or not but thats what i think about it i really dont know if there is any perticular way you get it but doctors do say that the male determines that but i really dont know how they determine that and where that prospective comes from but i know that scientest also say that my health teachers say that and i always think how they do think and say that??

male genes are dominate so its up to the male bodies. its not his choice directly its what ever his genes pik cuz it the whole x y chromosome thingy...youll learn more about it when u get to like 8 9 th grade but yes its the males genes that decide..postitions have nothin to do wit it if u ask me. no u dont feel nuttin cuttin the cord and as for epidural i didnt have one..meds are the best for the baby so i went wit out the first and had and iv med the second time. my contractions lasted about 37 hours and i think thats worse then nething..they hurt more towards then end most important is to controll breathing. if u can do that then ull get thru it good and yes it hurts but when u see ur baby u forget everything its the best feelin ever. trust me on that. n no i prolly wasnt ready for a baby n i lost friends only the true ones stuck but i had the help n support of alot of ppl and im glad i kept n had my kids now.

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