Have you noticed

Hi
Hope that everyone is doing ok. I have a question and was wondering if anyone else feels this way. here goes: Have you ever noticed that people look at you differently since you had a stroke ?,
some say gee you look good even though you had stroke and then when I open my mouth to speak then they say something totally different. Have you ever noticed that when you park in handicap stall that people look to see if you have some visible thing to be there? Then when you pull out walker, cane etc then they turn their heads. Why are we so quick to judge? I know i was guilty of this sometimes when my parked in the handicapped stall for my husband and see others and say to myself why are they park there? Now that the shoe is on the other foot so to speak not so quick to judge. And now I see more things people do. Have you ever noticed that if you take a motor cart in the store down the aisle that people just plow out in front of you? dont they see that there is someone coming in this big thing ? why do they do that? have you noticed that when you trying to reach stuff on the top shelf in the store no one seems to help? I think we need to stop and think and try to help others more and not judge either .food for thought I just feel like I don't want to be watched and maybe neither do others. I feel so out of it that dont know how to get that energy back either so me to tired now to be judging others. So the next time you out look and see if you ever noticed and maybe we all can be more kinder to others. I know that I am going to try. thanks for listening and take care all
terry