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13 and pregnant

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Hi. I am 13 and found out I was pregnant about 3 weeks ago. I am about 8 weeks along. Me and the dad are still together and he's being supportive. My mom is the only one who knows and she's being supportive too. She has offered to help. I'm really nervous about telling his mom. I am scared and excited and dont know what to expect. I need all the help I can get, any advice?

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well motherhood here it comes. congrats !!!so in laws are very stressn . Just keep god in the middle of your heart ,mind, and soul and pray about it . God will help you step by step. HE works in my life as a young mother of four children and a step son . Couldn't have and other way. You know no matter what they say at least you still have your mother there for some assurance and I think you really need to give your mom props on her being there for you. It takes alot of courage for her to to step in like she did. awwwsome!!1and god bless!!!

Findin out ur prego can b a really scary thing...espically @ such a young age but as long as u got the support of ur mom nd the soon to be dad den dat helps a lot nd all dat really matta...if ur plan is to keep the baby den ur in laws have no choice but to accept it cause whether dey like it or nt a baby is on the way...I'm currentley 7 wks wif my 2nd nd still can't seem to man up to let my mom know..lol so jst stay strng..nd congrats on the baby nd being a mom but remba da road ahead is gnna b rough...gd luck!!!!

wow congrats!
My mom had to tell my babies dad
cause he was so scared. she has not taken it
good at all. shes been real mad and says they
will have it harder than us. and she's trying to say
its all me and the dads fault and stuff (even though
my mom and his mom let us spend the night
together - with my mom in the same room lol)

but me, my brother, and my mom have accepted it and
are excited. i'm 9 weeks on Wed. let me know how it goes with your mom

I dnt even no hw to start to tell my mom...I'm tryna wait as long as I can...nd I'm still confused bout my discussion..I feel like I'm too young to have a 2nd baby nd I'm scared..I dnt even have my own apt or nffn..I'm workn @ a fast food resturant nd idk hw lng dass gnna last cause of my nausea nd constantley needn to throw up idk hw lng my job is gnna put up with all of it..it seems like my boss is tryna get me to quit...I keep thnkn bout the money issues..havin my own place..dealn wif two kids..(a 3 yr old nd a newborn) sigh..I jst dnt no

hi..im 14 and just found out that im 3 weeks along..im so unbelievably excited..but i know my family wont be..i havent told anyone yet..but i know that the father will stand by my side..hes the person i want to spend the rest of my life with..and thats why i chose to have sex with him..dont let anyone control your decisions..its your baby, and dont let anyone tell you that youv done anything wrong..from what i can tell of you..your going to be a great mother..youv done nothing wrong and neither have I..think about it..everyone our age is having sex..we are just the only ones that have something to show of it..you sound so ready to be a mother..it would be nice to meet you and talk to you about both of our struggles through out the whole thing..i would love to be a close friend of yours..you inspire me to tell my mom..i hope she handles it as nicely as your mom did..keep your faith..as will I..i hope you write me back..so we can keep in touch..dont let anyone stop you..weve both got miracles coming our way..ill always be supportive of you..my prayers go out to you, your boyfriend, and the miracle growing inside of you..
-keep in touch
Amanda Howard

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