i am 19 years old and experiencing my very first pregnancy. the baby should be born on march 31, 2010. it is going to be born with a birth defect known as gastroshesis, in which its intestines are on the outside of its body. it could take months immediately after birth before i can take it home with me. it crushed me the first time i found out because all i want is for my baby to be happy and healthy. with support from my friends and family, i am praying that everything will be okay.


First, you absolutely must maintain a positive attitude. My daughter was a preemie (30 weeks) with gastroschisis. We knew early on (13 weeks) and were prepared. I had a fabulous OB-GYN who kept telling me, this kid will be like every other kid on the block after we get her back together. For the most part, she was, and continues to be. She is now 22 years old. She spent only 5 weeks in the hospital (usually preemies are expected to stay until their expected birth date, so should have been 10 weeks). The repair went well. My best to you!!