There is this guy my husband works with and there child was term and 90% for height and weight and his wife always seems to be putting my little guy down every chance she gets. Lucius is barely 1 % on an FT chart, and she loves to tell me how her one year old is bigger than him (whenever i have the unfortunate experience of having to talk to her), and how her three year old was walking and talking by 1, and how much better her kids are then mine. I want to friggen strangle her, and I don't say anything b/c I am a nice person (and her husband is a SSgt, while my husband is only an A1C). Lucius was a preemie he is developmentally disabled, her kids are term of coarse they are on track.
But now she is encouraging her child to be violent towards mine because he is bigger, she told her son over the summer to tackle mine, knock him to the ground and thought it was hillarious, so did her husband, I was pissed off, told them not to and went down there and stay right next to him. Then while we were watching our husbands play softball, her horrid child came up and hit me with a plastic bat in my stomach while I was 9 mo's pregnant with my daughter, she laughed, and I gently took the bat from him and told him that wasn't polite, she proceeded to turn and tell our group of friends (who told me about this) that I shouldn't be telling other people's kids what to do! Come to find out he was hitting other as well as our hosts mother, and she encouraged it. Then she had the gall to call me a knowitall and a bitch because I stood up for myself to her when she tried to tell me how to deal with my sister-in-law who was visiting.
Ugh, she pisses me off so much, pretty much calling me a bad mother because I didn't breast feed, I breastfeed Lucius for a month but I have some pretty bad health problems that I needed testing for so he went on formula. With Gwen I tried, and my milk just didn't want to come in. I am happy I bottle fed them though, I tried breastfeeding, and just because I couldn't do it doesn't make me a bad mother, it makes me a mother who is trying to get healthy so she can see her children grow up!
Sorry all I just had to get this out ugh I am just so aggravated right now.