We recently brought one of our twin boys home from the NICU and are now being accused of depriving family from seeing them. There are a lot (to say the least) of family dynamics that go into this problem, but we are in no way denying anyone from seeing our twins. How do we get difficult family members to understand that they are tiny and susceptable to sooooo much? One side is great and understanding the other is just telling everyone that we are depriving them of the children and we are getting angry emails and rude comments from people. We are limiting people b/c of the risk, we are to the point we just want to tell people to just stay away b/c we don't need the stress. My husband and I have gotten the point we just tell people that our rules are not for others to understand it is for them to respect. Please help.....this is stressful enough without those that are supposed to be our support systems making it worse. Has anyone else gone through this????