hi all, m a mom of a 30-weeker who is still on a very skinny side, being under-weight from day 1 also. she is now 20 months old & 6.5 kg only...:( :(
well in spite of all these issues/tensions/hsptl trips n all that stuf dat v had never expected in our life, the thing which make me too much tense is answering people. whenever i meet someone, or at any public place like mall/hsptl etc, people ask me following questions for sure
1: Ohh so small/tiny? why??
2: don't u give her food??
is she fasting since birth??
3: why don't u consult any doctor??
4: don't u take proper care of her??
5: why do u take her out of home??
o GOD!! m really sick of these question...:(
i don't know for how long i would have to be answerable to people regarding her. i understand that she is really very skinny baby so people get shocked to see her, so raise question. but i have started feeling this world is very cruel!! people don't understand that of course being parents v must b doing each & every thing for her well-being! v must not be sitting on a chain with one leg on another...
if it was a group of people, i was supposed to talk to them for my ease, but its the whole world who z raising questions n ultimately making us more stressed!!
i m really worried as if she'll remain tiny forever????
shall i have to answer people for rest of my life?
will my daughter face same questions when she will grow older?
what complexes my daughter will develop being smallest student in class in future??
people compare her with their full-term healthy babies n get me into more complexes...i know there z no comparison of these too....
just wanna know HOW DID U FACE PEOPLE BEING A PREEMIE PARENT?
DID U PREEMIE GROW ENOUGH TO NOT LOOK LIKE PREEMIE???
ur feedback will b great help indeed.!!
Edited February 2, 2013 at 8:05 am