So my husbands employer hasn't been very nice since we had our twins at 28 weeks. We delivered about 2 hours away from home at a larger hospital and our twins had to stay there for 2 months. My husband is in sales and travels quite a bit so he works away from home a lot. However, when the twins arrived early he asked if he could work a couple of days a week in Iowa City ( I stayed at a guest house in the hospital while there). They said he could work one day a week (not very generous) considering what we were going through and that he sometimes is gone for 10-13 days at a time for trips. Get this, they said he could take "unpaid" leave but he would lose his benefits. Yep, that would be really smart! Lose our insurance when we need it the most!!! Now that we are back and everybody is fine they are telling "everyone" that the claims are too high and need to switch insurance companies cause our rates went up. In the last 2 weeks his boss (JB) has brought up insurance to him 3 times now. Told my DH in so many words that it was from most of our claims. To top it off today he called him into his office and showed him this video -see the link below. It is about a couple who had preemie twins I believe and went through many surgeries w/one of them and maxed their insurance, lost one twin girl, and went bankrupt from medical bills. My DH and I are still trying to figure out his point. When I watched the video, I just felt awful for the family but the whole time was thinking what an ***hole. I think he has crossed the line. Obviously they don't have kids and thank goodness they don't. They have been very unkind through our ordeal. The only thing that makes me feel better is KARMA. Thanks for listening. Hope everyone has better employers than my husband does.