hello, my sister became paralyzed one year ago, she fractured the c5 and c6 and is paralyzed from the waist down, she can use her arms, but really does not have much motor skills. She was injured in a car accident. Lately I don't know what to do for her anymore, she has become very very nasty towards myself and her friend (who has been there for her since day 1) she is also very mean to my mother whom she lives with. I try to visit her as much as I can (sometimes 4 to 5 times a week) I ask her all the time to go out for dinner, movie anything, but she constantly says no. She hardly gets out of bed and all she does is complain about everyone around her. She does not do any therapy on her own. The other day she left me a very mean message on my cell phone and told me I don't do anything for her. This hurts me so much, cause I had a fundraiser for her to have a handicap bathroom put in, gave her a laptop (which she never uses), threw her a huge welcome home party after rehab, whatever she needs I gave it to her and it still is not enough. Please tell me what I am doing wrong and what I should be doing. I have not called her back since she left me a nasty message, I feel she needs to apologize.
Edited July 20, 2008 at 11:19 pm