Hi, I'm sorry if this seems like a dumb question , but how do you use the ostomy paste. It did not come with any instructions,and truthfully I am confused as to if I am suppose to place on the skin forming a circle tightly around the stoma, or on the bag itself. I am still experimenting using products to prevent leaks from occuring. I think my problem is waste collects under the wafer, forcing the seal to break. Adhesive sprays have helped, but I feel it happens to frequently, and the stress of worrying about a leak occuring is really getting to me.