Ok....this is insane! Trying to change my pouch after a shower. I dried my skin with towel, then used the blow dryer on cool. I'm using Coloplast pouch and mouldable ring. It took me 30 minutes! To the point of tears. I don't know if I have it on right. My WOCN said I'm 1 1/8''. I measured to be sure. There's a really red ring around the stoma, and I applied powder, dusted it off, and of course it started to ooze. I cleaned off two or three times, and reapplied the powder. Then I got the ring on the flange and it didn't seem like it was big enough, I put it on anyway. I could see some skin, although not a lot. I don't know if I'm doing this right. Wishing I had never done this. I'm broken. I keep telling myself I did this for my kids. My mom says eventually I'll be able to do it in my sleep. Not much I can do about it now. Can't turn back time. I'm so frustrated and just want to cry.