I’m new to this discussion list but, but my son has been living with NF for 25 years now. What makes more difficult is that my son has also mental disability and cannot tell me what and if anything hurts. He has a spirit of an angel and he is the one who pulls me thru so many low moments.
Now I need to decide if I want him to have a surgery. In his last MRI doctors found that his tumor in the upper spine (neck area) is too big and needs to be taken out. It looks like the tumor is wrapped around his spine. I’m also noticing that he has spasmodic movements in his arms and sometime in his leg.
The doctors at Virginia University telling me that he needs to have surgery in the next couple of months or he can be paralyzed.
Please, if anyone had this type of surgery or have a family member who did, tell me all about it. I cannot decide because my son cannot tell me if something is hurting. If this continues I don’t think I’m going to make it because there are just so many nights I can go without sleep and days of anxiety taking over my life. Is anyone here who can tell me anything about this type of tumor?




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