Right, this is a list of things I wish I'd known a year ago.
1) If you don't menstruate in the cycle after cervical surgery, have the cervical opening checked - mine was blocked by a membranous overgrowth for 10 weeks, with menstrual blood backing up behind it.
2) Don't waste time trying on your own. Chances are there is more wrong with you than you realise. Consult a fertility specialist immediately.
3) Check your tubes. Almost a year after my trachelectomy and lymphadenectomy I've just discovered (via laparoscopic surgery) that my tubes were damaged and distorted, probably from the surgeon rooting after lymph nodes. A hysterosalpingogram (HSG), which is an X-ray of the uterus and fallopian tubes after injecting dye via the cervical opening is good.
4) Keep checking that the cervical opening stays open. After mine was initially opened up, it closed again after 6 months or so. Dilating it the second time was painful.
5) If you do artificial insemination or IVF, have your fertility specialist do a dummy run before D-day to make sure he knows where your cervical opening is and that he can get a catheter in there. If you're doing IVF, the dummy run must be guided with a sonogram to make sure that the catheter not only goes in, but that the embryo can be correctly placed.
6) Save your money. Fertility treatment costs more than you can believe.
Ho hum. In another year's time I'll probably have more to add...





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