I apologize if this is a discussion that has already been posted, but I couldn't find a similar one, so here goes.
I was recently diagnosed with high risk HPV and have an appointment in December for cryotherapy. My boyfriend and I have never had sex, but would like to when the time is right. He is ill himself right now, so it won't be happening before the cryotherapy, at any rate, but eventually it's a certainty. Condoms are also not going to be used in the long term.
My question is, what is the best way to go about that? Should we wait until I am definitely HPV free? How risky is it to have unprotected sex after I've healed from cryo? What about after a normal PAP? Should I be concerned about 'passing' HPV back and forth between us? Should he be tested?