Sorry to bring this up but I have tried for more than six months to fit in. Have a few light acquaintances here. Partially controlled epilepsy. In redneck, hick, hillbilly town 70 miles north of NYC. Lost housing in NYC (2 months before Superstorm Sandy) and was happy for ten years. They are not cruel to me, just clannish. Have volunteered here but they have ten to twenty people for every volunteer spot. Don't drive, forced to walk everywhere. If you don't drive here, you are considered a loser. Public transportation is poor. No support groups. Trying to get a hobby. Am 55 year old woman living in a private college dorm (not a student). Tried churches, but not friendly there, either. Applied to all public housing, including senior housing. In June, going to Orlando, Florida (you must apply in person) to apply for public housing. March 2014, will be here 18 months and will explore going to Cuenca, Ecuador (I speak Spanish). Looking for community. Does anybody have any ideas?