I just now joined this site in hopes of hearing from other parents who deal with bipolar young adult children. I don't know when to try to help or what to say. Everything gets turned around back on me, or either Im being controlling, or Im the one who gets the brunt of her anger. I am not a pushover by any means, I just dont want to trigger anything and in the process of trying to be a support to her, I get the wrath of her anger. How do other parents cope?