I hope someone out there has some answers for me. I have a daughter who has bipolar, personality disorder, anxiety, low self esteem etc. She has finally moved out on her own. For us this is great because she is very difficult to live with. I have concern about who she is living with. He calls himself a friend, but she is totally in love with him and he says he has no feelings for her, yet they sleep in the same bed & he plays with her head. He is always giving her false hope. She does everything for him but yet he continues to hurt her. He verbally abuses her, I have told her to throw him out but she won't. My concern is she told me that he has her to a point that she doesn't even know who she is. I know her heart is broken and as long as he is there he is gonna continue to send her mixed messages. My question is do I allow this to go on until she is ready to toss him, which may be never or do we as parents step in and throw his ass out. Yes she will be hurt for sometime but in the long run she will be better off. I just don't want him to destroy her. She is 23 but has these mental health issues. He is 28 and going no where in life. Someone please tell me how to handle this. Sick....seeing her hurt all the time. Any advise will be helpful.