My son is 20 years old and my husband and I are finally trying to get help for our son. He has bipolar disorder and a seizure disorder. He can be very belligerent, and mean towards me. Although he take turns on who he is going to hate on a daily basis. Nothing makes him happy other than when he has money. He hates me in particular even though all I do is help him. I am at the end of my rope. I can feel his hatred towards me even though I try to talked to him in a kind and loving way, he always ends up insulting, and degrading me. I told my husband today if he does not help me find help for him I am leaving them. My son had hit both of us in anger. He broke my husbands finger in a fight and punched me in the face and broke my eye socket and cheekbone. He also has gotten into fights with strangers and friends. Any advise from anyone who has been through this?