Hi there my name is Melissa , I'm 29 & my husband is 30 , my husband suffer's from ADHD as well as OCD , his biggest thing is checking , he's a major checker , not to menton a major worrier . My husband's OCD has only gotten worse in the last 5-6 yrs , every time he leave the house & then comes back he feels this need to check every room in our house, he has to check to see if all the doors are locked , from there he has to check the kitchen making sure everything in it's rightful place , he then feels that he has to check the two other rooms in our house , on top of all of this my husband is very very picky about how clean the house is . Now with me suffering from ADD, this makes things ten times more intense between us , I will fully admit that I hate to clean house, especially with the fact that my husband's OCD is so bad , that I feel that no matter how much I try to clean to his satisfaction , he will always find something criticizing to say . My husband's other biggest problem is he feels the need to touch and re touch things , making sure the nobs on the kitchen sink are straight , analyzing things in the house, checking to make sure everything is straight . Of course my husband's OCD has caused many many disagreements between us , his OCD is very over stimulating to my ADD and there are many times where I just get so frustrated & over whelmed with it that I just don't want any part of it , simply because his checking rituals mostly center arround me , which i do not understand . Now with the fact that we live in the state of NC , our mental health services here aren't all that great and I have yet to be able to find help for my husband's OCD , even tho has medicaid and Medicare .