On Monday, my 33rd birthday of all days, our family was told that my father has stage IV non-small cell lung cancer which has metastasized into his bones (specifically his ribs and spine). The oncologist said he has possibly 6 months, and my father has chosen not to endure chemotherapy. He is home, surrounded by family. I've never had someone close to me battle cancer like this, other than my grandmother but she was diagnosed and lived many years before passing. I have so many questions and feelings, but right now my biggest concern is how to I get my dad to eat? He is literally eating next to nothing. I worry that if the cancer doesn't kill him, malnutrition will. I appreciate any suggestions, advice, or kind words you can offer. I am thankful to have found this site and a means to connect with others going through the same things.