Stage 4 lung cancer

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** Originally posted by ddahn **

Hi,

I remember a year and a half ago frantically searching for a glimpse of hope when I found out my mom was diagnosed with stage IV lung cancer. It looked so grim and sounded like a death sentence. The statistics I read showed there was only about a 2 percent chance of someone living past 1 year and didn't even show the 5 year survival rate information. I searched website after website looking for survivors' personal experiences and hoping to find some miracles, but it looked grim. That is why I am writing this..... to give hope to those in search.

My mom was diagnosed in June 2004 with Stage IV lung cancer. She had never smoked a day in her life or worked around harsh chemicals that we're aware of. She was in shock that she had lung cancer, but surprisingly was taking it very well. The cancer had spread to her bones, her liver and eventually we would find out her brain. She started out on Chemo, with Taxol. Unfortunately it made her quite ill and she spent several trips to the doctors office every 5 days to get IV's full of fluid to hydrate her. She felt good for about a day or two and then was in bed most of the following days. In August, she saw a different doctor for another opinion. This doctor felt her treatment plan was on track, but suggested they check to see if the cancer had spread to her brain. Unfortunately it had, so they started radiation. She was on steroids for a few weeks that made her quite anxious and not her real self. The great news was that the radiation seemed to work on the brain and the taxol was helping to shrink the cancer throughout her body.

In September 2004, her cancer was stabilizing, but not shrinking. The doctor suggested she try Iressa as the new form of Chemo, it was suppose to work quite well for non-smoking women. He was right. She takes an Iressa pill everyday and for the past year and a half you wouldn't know anything was wrong with my mom....well except that she was on a diet and got a really short haircut. She feels great, and is as active as she has ever been. We actually just got back last week from a family cruise to the Caribbean.

I keep praying for my mom and ask my friends to do the same. My mom is an amazing women that never got down or sad because this was happening to her, but looked at how lucky she was to have so many wonderful friends and family members who cared about her. She has received hundreds of cards which have made all the difference in the world to her. Her motto in life has always been to stay positive and be a good person. I truly believe this is one of the main reasons she is still here with us today. Her cancer is still there but stabilized. She doesn't think about it to often and just tries to live her life to the fullest. Even though we're miles apart and I don't get to see her much these days, I feel truly blessed with each additional day she is here. There's hope out there - just stay positive and pray!!

26 replies

** Originally posted by Chum **

Donna,

What a remarkable and wonderful story... one I hope will go on and on and on. Small cell cancer is so much more quickly spreading than non-small cell. Glad to hear that some chemicals work on it!

Courage

Chum

** Originally posted by carolhg **

Fantastic! Wonderful! I pray that you mother keeps on keeping on!!!

** Originally posted by llambert **

So so happy for you and your family!

** Originally posted by sb **

Thank you for your inspirational story. It was really good of you to come here and post it. Hope you stick around. Sharon

** Originally posted by BarbaraEllen **

Dear ddahn,

Your story relating your Mother's diagnosis and subsequent treatments has to have given much hope to many.

I know it gave me a boost.

Thank you for sharing your experience with us. Just knowing that there are those out there who are surviving and living well is very encouraging.

Hope you will revisit and "chat" with us? Please do.

Barbara

** Originally posted by Jamie **

I agree with that being positive helps everything.

Enjoyed your story!!


GOD BLESS!!
Jamie

** Originally posted by bubbieproven **

Donna

I am such a believer that the will to live, and being a fighter is every bit as important, if not more so, than the meds.

Your mom sounds like a truly amazing person! Thank you for sharing her story with us. It will lift the spirits of many people here!

Keeping the faith

Debbey

** Originally posted by Ann **

Dear ddahn,
I too have SC LC and was in stage IV when it was found. I am celebrating my 3rd year as a survivor and have a friend who is a 10 years survivor of this very same cancer. Your mom has been a champ and you have been her guiding light to help her through this journey. We all need help and when we do it is so special to have a loved one to be the guide.
Your mom sounds like a very strong lady and her daughter sounds like she is her mom's child. How very lucky your mom is. God bless both of you. Welcome aboard.

** Originally posted by Bonnie **

Thank you for giving so many people HOPE. Its so wonderful to hear about the treatment giving good quality of life .....thank you

** Originally posted by DaveG **

See folks, there are others beside myself, who have survived Stage IV Non Small Cell Lung Cancer. How about a big round of applause for all the Stage IV Survivors

** Originally posted by BarbaraEllen **

A big round from this end, Hip, hip, hooray!!!!!!!!!

And, a big two-thumbs up.for all the Stage 4 survivors. May life, love, and joy be theirs for a long, long time.

Barbara

** Originally posted by Marann999 **

Hi,

What an inspiriting story. Thank you so much for sharing that with us. Your mom seems like an incredible person with many family and friends who support her. She is blessed there. I also love her outlook on life and how she still has such a wonderful positive attitude. That is half the battle there.

So far she has beaten the odds and I know she will continue to do so.

I love stories like hers as it is so upfilting to our newcomers. There is always hope.

keep us posted on her progress.

Maryanne

** Originally posted by lilburndiablo **

Ddahn!

You and your family are in my thoughts.
It sound as if you have a strong mother as well as our Moderator.

** Originally posted by Marann999 **

Wow Donna, what an inspiring story. You mom is amazing, you must be so proud of her.

What a difference a year makes!! And I know her story will help and inspire the new comers who are so scared of the diagnoisis.

She is a real trooper with a wonderful attitude.

Keep the good news coming...

Maryanne

** Originally posted by DavidEllis **

Well done Donna's mum

At what stage do you begin to consider yourself a survivor?

I was diagnosed in May 2005 (Stage IV NSC-LC) after the secondaries in my hip/pelvis had stopped me walking - typical Aussie male - in increasing pain for 6 months before I saw a doctor then rushed in to surgery to have half my pelvis removed, hip replacement etc..

Had radio on the lung growths and chemo (sorry, I note that most people know what they were fed, I paid no attention) for 4 months.

Changed my diet, Chinese medicine and a very positive attitude, plus a wonderful wife and son and great group friends have seen me enjoy another year.

Having radiotherapy again next week as the secondaries in my pelvis have come back with a vengeance.

I love reading the stories of courage and hope on this site.

And I was a smoker, but I didn't deserve this, no-one does.

** Originally posted by Ann **

Dear Dave from down-under,
At what stage do you consider yourself a survivor? The very second the doctor says....You have cancer!! That's it..that is when you start to fight .That's when you decide it's going to be O.K. It going to take a little time so in the meantime.... I keep my self busy, take the best care of me I can. I try to put things in perspective and remember what's most important. I'll not forget that someone cares, I will reach for the positive side. Then I will take a step towards my inner qualities: my strength, my smile( a real one not fake), my wisdom , my wit, my outlook of optimism that is a special part of me. It's going to be O.K. You are a survivor in just that very second...God Bless, Ann
Oh, also welcome to our circle of survivors.

** Originally posted by jolene **

What an uplifting story. Will share it with my family. It gives us all a warm feeling of success! jo

** Originally posted by BarbaraEllen **

Dear Dave,

You have been and are a survivor. Ann said it best. I agree that you are a survivor when they diagnose the lung cancer.

From that moment onward, the fight begins and the survivor ship is in play.

Sounds as though you have been well armed with treatments, diet, and loving family and friends. You've got it covered.

Keep that attitude, Dave. It will serve you well.

Barbara

** Originally posted by DaveG **

Just having the name DAVE, means you are a survivor.

Us with the name Dave must stick together.

I am seriously crying HAPPY AND HOPEFULL tears .. My dad has just been diagnoced with small cell lung cancer . he also has it in in lymnoids in his throat , he has type 3 right now , he is having a cat scan done on monday to see if it has spread to his brain and other parts of his body . He just started chemo tuesday . I sware its happeing so fast and i feel like overwhelmed i cannot even imagine what he feels . This story you have shared with all of us .. this beautiful hopefull wonderful story will give us all something to hold onto . I am so happy for you . I know my dad will appreciate this story as well . thank u from the bottom of my heart take care and god bless .......... gloria

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