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Pink in the Rink!!

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We have a minor league hockey team here, the Mississippi Sea Wolves.

They have a game coming up,, "Pink in the Rink" night. The players will be wearing pink jersies that night and the jersies will be auctioned off after the game and the proceeds will go to,,you guessed it... BREAST CANCER!! What am i?? The dirty ba$ta** of cancer.

I fired off a copy of Lori Hopes letter to the team owner and got a satisfactory response.

The email

Being a lung cancer survivor during "Pink in the Rink" night makes you feel not only like a second-class hockey fan, but also a nasty, guilty one for feeling angry and jealous. How could anyone fault breast cancer for receiving so much attention, funding, support, and sympathy when it strikes one in eight women and kills up to 13% of them within five years?

But lung cancer is the biggest cancer killer, and takes nearly twice as many lives annually as breast cancer. And although lung cancer is stigmatized -- it's been described as the "serves-you-right cancer" -- very few people know that 15% of its victims never smoked at all, And few know that the tobacco industry spends billions each year marketing its poison to our youth, and that drug addicts say cigarettes are harder to kick than heroin.

Ours is the least funded of all the major cancers, even though it kills 85% of us within five years of diagnosis, as compared to breast cancer, which is, thankfully, 98% curable when caught early.

Our ribbon does not have a pretty color. In fact it has no color at all. It's invisible. Literally: Lung cancer advocates designated a clear ribbon for it, because that's how it's perceived by most people. But Sandy and the 160,000 others who died of the disease last year -- and the hundreds of thousands more who loved them -- must not remain invisible


Next year, during Lung Cancer Awareness Month, please recognize all of us impacted by this disease. I know you'll be sick of hearing about cancer by then, but think for a moment what it's like to be diagnosed with lung cancer, and how much it would mean to us to know that you care






seMPer Fi,

Dave

And their response.

Mr. Cerami,



Thank you for your support of Sea Wolves Hockey and thank you for sharing your thoughts about our Pink in the Rink game on Saturday, February 7th.



On June 29, 1987, my grandmother passed away from adenocarcinoma of the lung. Much like many others who are touched by the disease she had never ingested any tobacco products and generally lived a healthy life. I certainly understand the affect that lung cancer can have on a family. I also commend you on your fight to beat the cancer and hope that it is something that you do not have to face again.



The Sea Wolves try very hard to support numerous non-profit organizations in various ways each year. Whether large or small, monetarily or voluntarily, we feel an obligation to participate in as many charitable efforts as possible. Unfortunately, there many worthy causes that we can not reach.



I have made note to not only recognize breast cancer during our Pink in the Rink game but all cancers including lung. I’ve also noted that we will recognize lung cancer awareness month during our games next November.



We hope that you can join us on February 7th and we wish you the best health in the future.



Sincerely,

Bill Yates

228.388.6151

ps: When they are wearing their pretty pink jersies I hope they get their a$$ handed to them that night :)



seMPer fidelis

Dave

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Thanks Dave! I've been looking forward to your posts!!!!
I'll be rooting for the others also. LOL!!!
S

You helped. They heard you. Terrific!

Way to go Dave!!! Good to hear from you again.

Well done...by both sides!

Peggy

I am sooooo sick of the pink breast cancer thing I don't know what to do. Maybe we should have yellow for ALL cancers as Lance Armstrong did with the Live Strong bracelets. It's not right that of all things people should feel slighted when their lives are at stake. I certainly don't wish anyone any kind of cancer ever, but I am immediately furious when I see something again about Pink.

keep faith be strong and fight hard as they use to say along time ago WE SHALL OVERCOME

And pink USED to be my favorite color... (I won't even wear it anymore. How sad is that?)

Dave, you did a great job with your note and I'm glad you reached someone who seems to have heard you!

--Steph

I've missed you, Dave.

Way to go!!!

Can I use this letter and send it to our team here in Columbia, SC? They do the same thing......
Aaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrggggggggggghhhhhhhhh........

Give 'em hell!!!

Thanks Dave. You are wonderful. I watch for your posts because I care how you are and also because you are both smart and funny. I hope you are doing well. I think of you often.
Brenda

Great job ! You know I feel the same way all of you do ,and yes I feel a little guilty for feeling like this too but ,it is so sad and horribly true. Hopefully one day real soon that will change!God Bless
Lorie

Dave,
Would you mind if I used your letter with a couple of changes to meet the issue here in my part of the State about the invisible LC patient. We have a local news anchor who's grandmother at one point had breast cancer, which was successful treated thank god. However the young anchor uses it a a reason to push BC twenty-four seven, twelve months a year on her program.

I've wanted to write the station about her using her position as a personal sounding board for the areas social fund raising calendar, not only do we have LC month but now she has the 11th of every month (which she promotes everyday of the month), as BC day to do self examination and remind a friend. Yes, a great idea but it sucks the air out of any effort to recognize any another type of cancer, perhaps your letter in some form would be a good start. Arkansas is among the few who do not in anyway officially recognize November as LC month.

Thanks,

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