History - he had a prostatectomy via DaVinci 3 years ago and had lots of scar tissue issues for the next 2 years. Lots of pain as they had to go in and stretch the scar tissue in his urethra every 2-6 weeks. It finally worked and that issue is some better.
He smoked for 20 years and quit about 27 yrs ago. He is about 40 lbs. overweight and diabetic.
He had been walking 1-2 miles 3 days a week and riding a stationery bike 6 miles the other 4 days. About 2 months ago he started having shortness of breath and had to stop walking. He had a lung x-ray, then a CAT scan where they found 2 spots 9mm and 4 mm in 2 different lobes. Last week he went and had pulmonary function tests; repeated tests after using an inhaler was 15-20% better. Dr. talked to radiologists and they said it was up to hubby (they didn't have strong opinions either way) as to whether he has a PET scan now or wait for 2.5 months and have another CAT scan. He has decided to wait and do the CAT scan in August with the comment to me "Even if they find something, I probably won't do any treatment."
He also seems to have developed a cough, and has noticed ganglions (calcium deposits?) developing on his knuckles. This past weekend all he did was complaiin about being tired and he napped more than usual.
Am I crazy or wouldn't it be better to do the PET now and if it shows activity, start treatment earlier than later? We have a 6 mo. old grandson and 2 daughters - I feel he's being selfish ... or am I?




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