I just wanted to let everyone know my mom passed last night at 10 pm. The hardest thing I have ever had to see. She fought it for 10 minutes before she let go.
I just wanted to let everyone know my mom passed last night at 10 pm. The hardest thing I have ever had to see. She fought it for 10 minutes before she let go.
I'm so sorry to hear your news. I, too, went through it 4 years ago. Know that while you grieve, you are not alone. We are all here to support you as you start down this new road. :-(
My deepest sympathy...
Amy
I keep thinking maybe I didn't do enough. It happened so fast. I wish I had more time.
Were you with her when it happened? I wasn't prepared for how that went. is is normal for it to be drawn out? The images at the end are so hard. Did you expierience what I am talking about?
I am so sorry to hear about your Mom, Moms's hold a special part in our heart and losing them, well it is hard. I have to say that have comfort knowing she no longer has to suffer. My George has been suffering and every day it gets worse. This is hard to watch and I want the suffering to end soon for him. He and I struggled for 8 months now and he was so strong and so filled with fight that there was not one day passed that I said he is going to win this battle. Who knew that ultimately the cancer would win.
I grieve with you and I hope you are ok.
Janet
There is NOTHING you could have done. It was not your fault that it happened, and not your fault she passed away. Being there is all I wish for me with my sons when the time comes. I will never feel they should have done more, so dont you ever think your mom felt that way. Just being there eased her fear over something inevitable and you 100% helped. OK?
Jean
Hi littlemommy,
I'm sending you an email now with my experience.
Amy
I'm sooooooooooooooooo SORRY! I had a feeling it was going to be anytime but, didn't want to say anything. Especially with her not being mobile and not eating. My mom came to mind.
My mom passed within a month of her diagonis and yes, it happened FAST!!!!!!!!!!! They told us 6 months!
You will be in shock for a while i still am and it's been 2 months.
I know what your going through. I'm still going through my moms death everyday in the hopsital and in hospice. I cry a billion times a day and night still.
I really am so sorry, i KNOW EXCATLY what you are going through.
Again if u want me number just let me know
i'm really sorry
monica
I am extremely sorry for your loss. Just a month and a half ago, I lost my mom. I was actually laying in bed with her, holding her as she took her last breath. It was so difficult - I cant even put it into words but I am also so very grateful that I was there and the last words spoken to her were from me telling her how much I loved her The days ahead are going to be very difficult I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers Your mom was so very luck to have you
Im trully sorry to hear about your moms passing but u were there for her 100% and she knew that.U will be in my prayers.
So sorry for your loss. It sounds excruciating. Mourn all you need to. Your mother sounds very lucky to have had you in her life, and when you are feeling more healed, try to live the life that she was denied.
There is no rhyme or reason for any of this.
Again, I am so sorry. I am sure that your pain is excruciating now, but you will, over time, feel better, and I am sure that your mother would have wanted it that way.
And, most importantly, safeguard your own health.
I am sorry about your mom.
You did everything you could and know that if it was up to her, she would still be with you in body as well as in spirit.
Take care of yourself and know we're with you.
hugs.
Pat
You did all you could - and you did the best thing which was to be with her. She is now out of pain and whole again. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Erin
I'm sorry to hear about your mom. My mom passed on Tuesday (4/22). My sisters and brother were with her. If you'd like to add me as a friend I can tell you what my mom experienced before her passing. Take care.
Carol
Dear Carol,
My condolences to you on the loss of your mother. I'm glad you and your siblings were with her when she passed away.
God Bless,
Bette
Very sorry for your loss. While it is hard to imagine that things will get better please know that in time they will. You are in my prayers.
Jean
So sorry for your lost. I am sure your mother is now looking down on you so proud that you are her daughter. My prayers are with your family.
Kathy
I'm sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.
Carole
NSCLC IIIB Squamous Dx 01/07
Sorry for your loss. You and your siblings gave her a great gift in being there for her at the end. I don't think there could be anything worse than being alone at the end.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find peace and comfort in your memories in the days to come.
Lisa
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