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Hi, My mom was diagnosed in July with lung cancer. It all started really back in March when she hurt her knee at work and it wouldn't get better. In May it was so bad she could barely walk. She went to get an xray and was immediately sent for an MRI. It revealed a lesion. A biopsy was done and it was determined to be metastatic cancer, primary unknown. She then was sent for radiation immediately. They told her to stay off that leg since the cancer weakend her bone. Unfortuneately her leg broke at about 1am on a sunday morning while trying to get in her wheelchair to use the bathroom. She then had to have surgery to repair her shattered femur. She now has a metal rod in her leg, but has healed very well. While in the hospital they ran a CT and found the lung cancer. Luckily it was no where else. So far my mom has had radiation to her leg and her fifth round of chemo today. Her latest pet scan showed that her tumor significantly shrunk. So we know the chemo is working. She is keeping her weight up and is doing very well. She lost her hair but not her fight. With Gods help she will continue this fight and win. I thank God I came upon this site cause it has been a lifeline to me and has given me hope and a reason to keep her fighting. I am so proud of my mom. She just had her 60th birthday and I threw her a big party. She was surprised. I had my brother, sister and cousin all fly in. I also surprised her with her sister who lives in the same state but never visits this way. It is hard for her to travel. Everyday is a gift that I still have my mom here. Thank you to all who post their survival stories cause without them we wouldn't know that there is a chance.
God bless each and every one of you who are fighting this disease and those who have loved ones like me who are worried over their loved ones.
Paula

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hey, Paula,
welcome, sister, to our family - I am sorry you found the need to be with us, but am thankful you did!

I am so pleased your mom is doing so well - happy dances all around!!!!!

hugs
Pat

Thank you! I am very happy to have found this website. I just changed my pic to my mom. I wish I could post more than one. But I thought a pic of my mom would me nice. She is holding her dog like a baby in this one. I thought is was so cute. She has 2 and I think they know what she is going through. Animals are very intuitive.
Thanks
Paula

God bless you and your mom, Paula. I want to welcome you warmly to our family. (Though I wish you'd never had to seek us out.)

Keep us posted on your mom's progress.
~Dana

Dear Paula:

Welcome to our family. I wish you and your mom did not have to be here, but since you do, consider us your friends and helpers along this road we travel.

Yep, your mom sounds like a real fighter and it's great she has a daughter that is willing to fight with her.

Please drop by often and keep us posted on mom's progress. Oh yes, the picture is really cute. I had to look twice to tell that it was not a real baby. Made me laugh and think of my niece who used to dress her little poodle in doll clothes........haha.

**Hugs**
Marylou

Yes, I too wish I didn't have to seek you out but under the circumstances I am so happy to have found you. I really needed it. I have been just so torn up about it. My mom is my bestes friend in the whole world and losing my mom is losing a part of me as well. She is a fighter for sure. Today she had chemo, so she will be tired all weekend. On monday she gets a shot which will make her ache all week. Then she has a couple of good weeks ahead.
Thanks for replying!
Paula

Marylou,
Thanks for taking the time to welcome me here. I appreciate all the support here. I love the pic of her holding her doggie. She loves those dogs of hers. My mom is also lucky to have my dad. He is amazing. He makes me proud of him. They have been through alot since diagnosis. They lost their home during this. It was hard but have managed to pull through.
Anyway, thanks again!
Paula

Hello there and welcome to the family!!! I am very sorry about your Mom's diagnosis I know how hard it all is.If you have any questions or wanna chat you can contact me anytime.My email is kandyxxo@aol.com.Or we can chat on this sight.God bless you and your family at this most difficult time.Sincerely,Kandy

Kandy,

Thank you so much for your kind words. It is very hard. I am so thankful to the internet in able to talk with others who are dealing cancer as well. My mom means the world to me and it kills me that she is going through all this. I didn't know they have chat here. I will check that out. If you ever want you can also email me as well at paulamayo68@embarqmail.com
Thanks!
Paula

My heart goes out to you. My own daughters have had to bear the fear and heartache you are going thru. My daughter posted on thsi site as MOMSFAN, please read her post. I too was almost 60 when I was dx in feb 06. Still here. There is hope. I will be happy to add you as a friend and blog with you thru this journey. Marie

Marie,
I can understand what your daughters are going through. My mom just turned 60 in Sept. She was diagnoses in June at 59. I had a huge birthday party for her. It was so nice and she had a great time. Lots of family and for the first time in ages she has my brother and my sister her with me in one room. We had pictures taken together. I am so glad to have found this site. I have read numerous posts and have been given such hope. There is a bond between a mother and daughter that can't be broken. I feel bad for those women who do not have the kind of bond with their moms as we do. I am going to add you as my friend right now and I will pray for you as well.
Thanks
Paula

Welcome Paula!
So sorry that you have to be here with us, but so glad you found us when you needed to.
I come on this site almost daily. Sometimes looking for answers and sometimes to see if I can help someone else. It's a wonderful thing.
Keep in touch. Take care of yourself!
Kelly

Thank you! Yes, I am very happy to have found you all. It really is a blessing to have groups like this for support and answers or just a shoulder to lean on. This is why I am here.
Thank you
Paula

Dear Paula - Thank you so much for sharing your story. It was so good to hear where your focus is set, your joy in your mother....and the time you have with her. One of the special things about this site is the hope we give to one another as we share....often without realizing the power that lies within our words.....I so appreciate the joy you have with your mom. I wish I lived close enough to my dad to see him as often as you get to see your mom. But trust me...I will rejoice over every moment he is available to me.

Yes, I am blessed to be able to live near here. In fact I didnt' always. I am from NH and my parents moved to Florida. I was miserable with them so far away so my husband asked me one day if I would like to move to Florida so we packed up and headed out. I have no regrets. I still have lots of family in NH and that is what I miss the most. I am so thankful that I have had these years with my mom and that I can be here in her time of need. I don't take one moment for granted.
I hope that you get to see your dad as often as possible. Even just talking on the phone and having that connection is so precious. Like you, I will rejoice over every moment we have. Don't you think its unfortunate that with most people they don't see how precious time it with every loved one, sick or not because life can end at any time. We just know how short our loved ones life might be. We really don't know with anyone when their life may be cut short. So I take in each moment with every loved one and never fail to say I love you.
God Bless
Paula

Hi Paula,
Just wanted to say hi and say I prob won't be able to say much, but would love to be a support to you as well, sitting in a position of having a Mum that is recently diagnosed as well. She hasn't started treatment yet, but I know i'll be traveling a similar journey to you and many many people here .. i agree - the bond between mother and daughter is incredible, and i can't imagine losing my lifeline and the one person in the world who really does 'love you no matter what!'. Hopefully everyone here can be of help to you - i havent been on here long but everyone is so lovely and supportive ... although it can lead to tears at work sometimes!!
xo

Yes, it sure can lead you to tears. This site is full of fears, tears and of course joy and friendship. I am so happy to have found this here. I have cried and smiled here. Its always sad to see when someone has passed, such as our dear Pat who just passed at 43. It makes me so sad and sad that I didn't really get to know her. She seemed like such a wonderful woman. I am glad to have met you.
Thanks
Paula

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