Devastated!.... It's back!!!

jmichelle
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My mom just called me to tell me that her cancer has returned.... again! I am so devasted... No... I'm pissed!

She has had 9 months of clean scans... the last one just 2 1/2 months ago!

Her comment to me was 3 strikes and your out... right? I said NO... You will fight this again just like the last 2 times! My poor Mom. This sucks big time!

Why is there not more funding for this beast? I am sick and tired of the law makers ignoring this disease!

Jodi

27 replies

Nin7366

Jodi
I am so sorry to hear your Mom got bad news. You were one of the people that gave me hope when my Dad had a recurrence back in September. Your Mom has beaten this 2 times already, I'm betting she can do it again. Timing really sucks with the holidays coming up......try to be positive for her. I will keep you all in my prayers. Don't give up!!!

Cindy

Marie400

Oh gosh - I'm sorry to hear this. Be strong. Your Mom has managed to come this far.

chessie-too

Jodi,

I'm sorry to hear about your mom,
especially this time of year. But your mom's a fighter and so are you. Don't let her give up.

You both will be in my prayers.

God Bless

jkmastro

Jodi! I am so sorry to hear this news! I am hoping and praying for her to get through the next round of treatment just like she has done before! I know it must be so tiring but she'll fight. You are a wonderful daughter...keep up the wonderful support. I will keep you both in my prayers. Please keep me updated on how she is doing.

Jill

Kerstin

Jodi,
I really do not know what to say...this really sucks ( Pardon the language ) It seemed like your Mom was doing so good.
With the all the Holidays coming up it must be really hard on everbody in your family.
I wish your Mom all the best in the world.
God bless you
Love, Kerstin

pjmac

Gosh Jody I'm sorry to hear your news . Your mom has had a good 9 months to build up her strength to take on this beast again. Wishing you all the best.
Peace and Prayers
Pam

kaencarsmom

I know, it makes me so mad too!
I am sorry about your mom, i know how you feel
HUGS|

StuartFL

Jodi,

I am sorry for your news about your mother and you and your family are in my prayers. There aren't many ex-sclc postings so I reading all.

My dad - 80 dx in July with ex-sclc just finished his 6 rounds of chemo and will have a scan in about 4 weeks. I am already worried about the results.

Please keep us informed.

Pam

meadowbreeze

Dear Jodi,
Tell mom not to get too discouraged. I am a 6.5 year survivor and have had 5 lines of chemo already. I was given a year to live 3 years ago and then a year ago I was given 13 months to live and I have beaten all the odds.

Your mom can do the same thing. Just tell her to keep a good healthy attitude and she might just beat the beast. Mine has returned so many times that it's natural for me and I go on fighting,

Tell her to hang in there and keep the faith.

GOD BLESS
LINDA

MARIET

IMy story is similar to Meadowbreeze. Dx Feb 06 Stage 4. Non operable, no rad. Just treatments. I am in my 5th line now with Gemzar. I have never had clean scans but I keep on fighting. For more about me see my profile also there is a link to my story that was done by a local newspaper.
http://www.rep-am.com/slideshows/mariemm/

Please keep us posted we care. Marie T

Marie400

Marie - That's a beautiful story. I love your attitude. Thanks for sharing that.

RiaRia

jodi - sorry about this horrible turn of events. most important keep your mom's attitude positive. we are struggling right now with the same thing. Dad's cancer has started growing again after only a 2 month break. the 2nd line chemo (topotecan) is kind of kicking his butt and it is very discouraging to him. but. . . we are hanging in there and trying to control the side effects. will keep you guys in my prayers.
maria

StacieK

Oh Jodi I am so sorry, this is terrible news. I know what you are going through, we have been on a similar roller coaster. They have to come up with a better maintenance plan for SCLC for the first few years after diagnosis. It feels like one punch in the gut after another, it sucks. I feel so bad for our parents. We have to keep them positive and fighting as long as we can. Keep us posted on what the next line of treatment will be. I'm praying for your Mom.

Stacie

bestrong

Marie,
I read your beautiful story and plan to share with my mom. She is also 62, and like your daughter, my name is Tracy (different spelling).
Thanks for sharing your story. Stay strong, you are an inspiration.
Tracy

summeron2001

Jodie - Similar story to Meadowbreeze and Mariet - 4 years - no remission - still fighting. Tell your mom it is sooooo important to remain positive and fight this beast. Sending hugs and positive thoughts for your mom and you.

Sylvia

medtrans

Linda you are a 6 1/2 year survivor of lung cancer. If you can give hope and encouragement to my mom who has stage IIIb lung cancer I know our family and friends would love to hear your story and how you keep the faith and hope to survive. Visit my moms web page and leave a note to her.

www.caringbridge.org
you will be asked to type in lynnbengert (do not use spaces between her first and last name)
Password
Loveandprayer (again no spaces).
Thanks
Kor

cad1223

Jodi:

I am so sorry to hear the news of your mom's recurrence. Please know that I am praying for you during this difficult time. You are so right...it does SUCK and it's not fair, but try to keep positive....there are always miracles waiting around the corner!

Thoughts and prayers are with you!

Cheryl

SKIP1

Jodi, I am sorry to hear about you getting this news, about your mom so soon in the holiday season. I am on my 3rd bout with the monster STAGE IV, and I just had my 83rd treatment yesterday. I was given 3 months 6 years ago and I am the longest living survivor in the WORLD that is on the drug Avastin. It appears your mom (G-D Bless her) has a great attitude and is a born fighter. You tell her that attitude is 70-80% of the battle. Now lets get to you!!. It sounds like your a wonderful caregiver and I want you to know how much that means. If you want to talk, E-mail me and I will send you back my phone #

skip

jmichelle

I want to thank everyone for their kind words and support. I am still not able to fully grasp the latest news. I am putting on a brave face for Mom of course but this time around I am having a hard time. I have called her Dr. to find out more about what is happening. I will keep you all posted.

Thanks again!

USMCCAT

AMEN! LC has so been ignored. Tell your MOM, NO, don't let it win.

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