Everyone knows that dealing with a mom with cancer is dificult. Treatments,,hospitalizations..medicines.physical therapy.endless doc appmnts etc. then hospice..then death..then funeral arrangements...The hardest pasrt for me has been the quiet, the inactivity since moms passing. It has been two months and I feel like it gets harder every day. My daughter got asked out on her first date today. I went to go pick up the phone to call grammy to tell her I actually picked up the phone for one moment I forgot she wasnt here Why didnt anyone ever tell me that the hardest part was after the fight was over Trying to get your life back to normal when normal included my mom in everything. I miss my mom more and more each day ecause life does go on the difference is that I cant share this with my best friend in the world anymore. I'm trying so hard to make life "normal" - especially for my incredible daughter who has been so patient and who had to give up so much to help her grammy during the past year but it is so HARD Is there a time frame when things start to get easier? I know everyone is different but rght now I need someone to tell me that after a certain point time does heal wounds.. Thank You