sad day

• By meliwill
• Reply 3711638
• January 16, 2013 at 4:08 pm
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oh, i am so sorry. I know it is so hard and it sucks. hugs to you!!

• By okcorral
• Reply 3711872
• January 16, 2013 at 5:30 pm
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<<<HUGS>>> Be good to yourself, you deserve it.

• By FKMP
• Reply 3712061
• January 16, 2013 at 6:41 pm
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I'm so sorry. The continued disappointment that comes with IF is such an uphill battle- how do we all do it? Sending you love and hugs <3. I understand where you're coming from and it's awful and unfair.

• By jubileejune
• Reply 3712091
• January 16, 2013 at 6:52 pm
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I've been there. Been angry. Hurt. Confused. Frustrated. Everything is in order, ready for that baby, that family, to come into your life. All the ducks are in a row, everything is in order, and it just doesn't work out. Why? Why so much heartache?

People want to make you feel better, with their five kids in tow, and it just feels like a mockery. Can you really understand how horrible it is to be denied this? Can you understand the frustration of having no control over such a basic part of life - starting a family? Infertility is a lonely place to be and everywhere we are reminded of what we don't have.

I know what it feels, to have this sense that it will never work. But how can I possibly listen? No, I must put myself through the works, to have done all I can, to give in to his feeling of impending failure. It is the great battle - to hope, to keep going, to risk heartache, or to finally concede.

I know when I have been angry and hurt, I've just wanted someone else to feel angry with me. I wanted someone to punch the wall with me more than I wanted someone to pat me on the shoulder and say everything is going to be okay. So I hope you can feel that I understand you. I'm sorry for your anger and heartache. I know how you feel and I know the greatest question in your mind - WHY!? I wish you the best.

• By Rupp36
• Reply 3712851
• January 16, 2013 at 11:06 pm
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Sorry to hear. I'm feeling it all with you...5th IUI was a failure...unexplained IF....feel like a failure. All I can offer are ((((HUGS))))

• By Saraleedee
• Reply 3712876
• January 16, 2013 at 11:21 pm
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I understand what you are feeling. No words but sending you support and empathy. Hugs.

• By vi2634
• Reply 3719018
• January 18, 2013 at 11:47 pm
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Thank you for taking the time to respond! I hate the emotional roller coaster ride! I know we ALL have to be strong and make the best of what we have.... ((HUGS)) and again THANK YOU!!!!! :)