Hello. Can anyone tell me how long they waited to proceed with IVF after a miscarriage? After 10 months of visiting the doctor, we became pregnant on our first IVF try (after several failed IUIs). I got to see the heart beat, then at 7wks, 6 days, had a m/c. There was no warning for the m/c.
Im not emotionally ready to go through all the visits/blood work/retrieval at this time. Im too scared and wonder if I'll ever be ready again. When I called the clinic to tell them, and all these terrible feelings crept up.
Im afraid IVF wont take the second time, and if it does, we cant be excited about being pregant b/c we might m/c again. Pregancy should be a joyous time, and it wont be b/c we will be wondering, will the other shoe fall? Any advise?