so many views,so many choices with cancer

Well,where do I begin???? I guess I will begin with what I am learning in life in general,that is we have to and must do what is good for one's self.What may be good for one,could be wrong for others.Any choice we make for ourselve should be based at the level to what you believe is right and what may be benefited by it,or what loss,and what am I willing to accept? Life has so many options to everything we endure in it,it is up to you! I suppose these are lessons I will carry throughout,not a bad thing.
Cancer,is a difficult,challenging,sad,emotional rollercoastal ride for people living with it,or loved ones supporting the loved ones fighting for their fight against this disease.I was at one time living with the monster,now I am supporting my husband with his fight to conquer his own cancer.I get overwhelmed,I almost feel at times it is I,I seem to want to make all the right moves for Bob,til I realize,this is Bob's disease,I need to respect what he feels is best for him.It gets discouraging.However,I remind Bob,my thoughts to defeat and cancer can be dealt in all areas of deep detailed research,positive thinking,going beyond your means.Well for now,time to relax my mind,let it wander to a place I find peaceful!