My father Robert, entirely healthy at 65 years of age, swimming 2 miles daily, began to show breathing problems. Diagnosed with pneumonia for 6 months on antibiotics, the doctors finally decided to do a lung biopsy (transbronchial) after his lung collapsed. Even after surgery, his pulmonologist denied cancer, until the lab results indicated Bronchioalveolar carcinoma (BAC). A PET scan indicated BAC in the right lung as well. The doctors claim my father does not have a metastatic disease but yet he does have indications of the disease in the opposite lung while the oncologist waffles between staging him at IV and III. He is immediately put on Tarceva and told surgery is not an option, (although he is a perfectly healthy candidate for surgery). He now has O2 24/7 because of mucus from the BAC and the collapsed lung? He has been seen by the oncologist once since starting Tarceva and told be come back in 4 to 6 weeks. What the heck? There is an unclear stage, unclear where the cancer is exactly in his body, and a shaky plan of attack. What do I do to not upset my father by meddling, or his doctors?




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