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What did you do for your sweetie today?

roadrunner
  • By roadrunner
  • Posted October 17, 2009 at 5:51 pm · 27 replies
  • In Caregivers corner
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  • Edited October 17, 2009 at 5:53 pm
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Surprise,,,,

Do you ever just surprise your other with a surprise,,,,? Maybe because you just love them,,,
How important is it to address emotional needs, not selfish needs,,,just maybe that little thing that reminds them,your appreciated,,,
Today is SWEETEST DAY,,,,I didn't remember,,,but I got a card and chocolate,,,its so nice the little things one may do,,,not just today,,,
IF you would get that surprise,,,what would be your dream surprise.......
Obviously OUR HEALTH IS FIRST,,,,
WHAT IS YOUR DREAM SURPRISE?

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roadrunner

HERES MINE,,,,,

We love the BEACH,,,,I would love to announce to our kids,,,,Saturday were all leaving for Aruba,,,,
2 weeks in the sand,,,,in the water,snorkeling a ship wreck....dinners together,talking about just anything,,,
riding the waves on a tube,,,,,NOT ME,,,,going on a mid-nite cruise,,,,,jumping on the trampoline in the water....
And taking alot of sun screen.........
FLYING FIRST CLASS....we would fill the front of the plane,,,,,,,

Its a DREAM,,,,
DREAMS CAN TAKE YOU EVERYWHERE..

nancynursez637

MY DREAM WOULD BE A FULLY RESTORED 1946 FERGUSON TRACTOR SO I WOULD NOT HAVE TO CHECK THE OIL EVERYTIME I WANT TO WORK IN THE GARDEN!!!
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NANCY

WELL A MONTH ON MAUI WOULD WORK TOO

roadrunner

Hey Nancy,,,,,,,,,,,THATS WHAT I am talking about....

One month in Maui,,,,,,,,,,,ahhh!!!

roadrunner

Cheyenne,,,,
And whats for dinner,what a great surprise!!!
She'll love it!!!!

What,no tequila??

robm

my dream surprise would be a night away from kids - you know - me & hubby - a bucket of kentucy fried-motel 6 (WITH cable) and maybe couple of beers - aaahhhhh -

roadrunner

Bring em over I will babysit,,,,,

jmch

when we get a break from bcg and all: a sunny week, a beach, dive in the mornings and nap in the afternoons.

roadrunner

Wow,,,,
I will watch where I take the kids snorkeling if my dream comes true!!!

jmch

Eeeeck. I am sure my dream does not involve spear guns

nancynursez637

I don't happen to have a sweetie in my life at the moment, but I did plant 200 tulip and hyacinth bulbs for the neighbor today, she was not able to do it her self. In turn she will teach me to draw/sketch

roadrunner

Very nice of you Nancy,,,just think about spring,all those flowers,that was a gift for her,,,,,

roadrunner

My husband just ate 9 pieces of the candy he bought me,,,,,well thats 9 less for me!!!! its a good thing...

MissGoodnight

My dream would be for Gordon to come home and say we won the lottery and I was not going to work on monday.

JeanneS

Wow I didn't even know it was that day, but had gotten hubby a bottle of Southern Comfort and his favorite pastry while I was shopping.

And he took me to dinner tonight.

Neither of us knew it was Sweetest Day,,,,that makes it even nicer :)

Moonerj

My wife is an avid golfer, even more so than me.
She has not been able to golf since August, because of her mom's illness and eventual passing away.
So on Friday I presented her with 2 plane tickets for Nov 14 to Florida for a surprise golf trip. She cried she was so happy.
So my dream is to see my wife and best friend happy again.
Jack

LadyJane123

Aww Jack, yo are so sweet.

My dream surprise would be my husband announcing a trip to Negril Jamaica to celebrate my birthday and Christmas.

nancynursez637

cool Cheyenne!!

roadrunner

Jack,,

I golf,can I come,,,??
I am still waiting for mu surprise,,,,YOU ARE AWESOME!

WILL YOU MARRY ME??

Moonerj

Chey golf is the most popular sport in the world.
It is one of the few sports that both you and your spouse can enjoy, participate, and watch together.
Now that golf will be in the 2016 Olympics, just watch this sport grow even more.
Foreeeeeeeeee,
Jack

Cheyenne

Jack, you do have a point there. I hate to give in to yu but you do have a point. I was analyzing a gold game once, not too long ago, studying the physics and human physiology behind golfing. I have always been the analytical type which why I don;t go to football games with Lizzie. She screams and yells, like most of the fans. I like to be quiet and analyze the play. Anyway, I found that golf really is amazing. Now, I hate to admit to that publicly, but it is true. The human physiology and the physics involved in that sport are truly amazing. 2016 Olympics huh? I assume you will be playing? I mean in the game, not the sand pile.

Yu have no idea how difficult it is for me to concede to you! OOOUCCCCCHHHHHHH!

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