My dad who is 53 years old was diagnosed in February 2009 with bladder cancer. The doctors (at Duke) recommended he do chemo first then he would have his bladder removed. They said "oh everything is great; if you have cancer this is the kind to have". He started with Cysplastin and Gemzar chemotherapy in March. In June he had a scan and it came back that the chemo did nothing, new tumors had grown in the bladder and now has spread to the liver. They told my dad that he now has small cell bladder cancer. All of this doesn't make any sense!! He now has a new diagnosis of small cell bladder cancer that has metastasized to the liver. He refuses to go back to Duke because the oncologists basically said "this cancer will kill you, but we can keep you going for a little while longer". He had to have his bladder scraped in July and stints put in because the tumors were blocking the kidneys. He has been in so much pain and not able to work anymore. He started new chemo (ICE & etoposide) in July. He did 2 cycles and last week we found out that the tumors did not shrink, but also has not spread anywhere else. He meets with his other oncologists here in Greenville, SC tomorrow to see what he recommends next.
My sister, mom, and I feel so helpless. We have done a lot of research and know that small cell is just really bad and not too much is known about it. We are trying to encourage him to go to MD Anderson, but he just doesn't know if he can make the trip and doesn't want to be away from home.
I have tried to find discussion threads on here about small cell bladder cancer, but maybe I'm just not looking in the right place. We just want to find success stories to give us some hope because we are trying to stay positive, but these past 8 months have been a nightmare!!!!
Any help is appreciated; we do not know what to do!!




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