My husband will be having neo-bladder surgery in about 10 days. We've done a lot of research and feel as ready as it is probably possible to be. It would be helpful to me, however, to know from patients how you felt a day, several days, a week, etc. post-surgery and what your spouse, friend, partner, or other person filling the caregiver role did that really helped you along the way. And, if any caregivers would like to comment, what recommendations do you have on what to watch for (what is normal and what is not), once home, what foods and beverages seemed to be best received, etc. -- Tips would be most appreciated.