Okay, so now what? I have only posted a couple of times here but do read and gain strength just about every day from all of you on this site. Dennis had bcg, chemo and then r.c. in March with 21 lymph nodes removed(10 of which were positive). All of this in 22 months. The choice is ours: chemo,clinical trial,do nothing. There are no guarantees for the first two options. So far, no one can give us a time frame, percentages...We routinely see 2 oncologists-one locally for my husbands treatments and the other as a consultant at the hospital/cancer center where my husband had surgery which is two hours from home. I would really appreciate some input, info, anything before we see the local guy on Friday. I am numb and my head is swimming and I don't even know what to ask at this point. My hubby is 50, I am 49 and somehow today we must make it through our son's last soccer game as a high school senior. Life stinks today. Thanks all. Jane




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