I know it's blunt and may be a risqué topic, but I'm curious if anyone else is having this problem. I have idiopathic gastroparesis. I've always had this happen.. If I have intercourse, either a day or 2 days later I'm in an episode..I call my spells episodes because the vomiting and abdominal pain goes on for about 4-6 days. I have to be hospitalized with IV fluids and pain and nausea medicine until it subsides. Is anyone having the same problems? Any advice? Should I just be abstinent? Or should my bf be uh slower, gentler? help!