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My boyfriend left me 3 weeks after my abortion

thisisdaina
  • By thisisdaina · Posted April 1, 2014
  • Discussion in Post-procedure emotions · 0 replies
  • I'm so hurt. I'm so broken. Not only did I have an abortion out of frustration, hurt, and pressure... but he left me 3 weeks later. Still bleeding, still healing. Today is 1 month after the abortion ...

Advice?

ellehcir
  • By ellehcir · New reply March 21, 2014
  • Discussion in I am considering having an abortion · 8 replies
  • It's my first time here and I'm looking to get some advice. I've read other posts and it put me to tears... just reading the posts have almost helped me make my decision, but I'm still looking to start ...

The Inspire Q&A: Inspire talks with Don Dizon, MD

John2
  • By John2 · New reply March 19, 2014
  • Journal · 12 replies
  • The Inspire Q&A: Inspire talks with Don Dizon, MD Dear members, We at Inspire are pleased to bring you the latest in a series of Q&A interviews with people who are making contributions to helping patients ...

Our second annual report with Stanford Medical School

Brian
  • By Brian · Posted March 19, 2014
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  • We just finished a brand new special report, “Experts by experience 2014: A compilation of patients’ stories”, in partnership with the Stanford University School of Medicine. It is a 31-page collection ...

Hitting a milestone -- 5,000 photos posted already

John2
  • By John2 · Posted March 18, 2014
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  • From: John Novack, communications director, Inspire 3/18/14 Dear members, I'm writing to let you know that in a little more than a month, members here have posted more than 5,000 photos. Congratulations ...

Right or wrong?

Beege1994
  • By Beege1994 · New reply March 15, 2014
  • Discussion in Post-procedure emotions · 2 replies
  • I'm 19 and had an abortion in December 2012, the procedure was done when I was at 12 weeks. I had to wait a whole month for the procedure to get done (small country town) I never knew if I wanted to go ...

My First Post

AliciaT
  • By AliciaT · New reply February 26, 2014
  • Journal · 4 replies
  • I already was a mother to two kids (from my ex-husband) when I found out I was pregnant again from my current boyfriend. We had been dating for 5 years but we lived in different cities about 3 hours away ...

I don't feel normal

snw2187
  • By snw2187 · New reply February 25, 2014
  • Journal · 2 replies
  • I'm in a constant battle with myself. Its like a tug of war in my head between "I did the right thing" and "you could have done it and been happy". Everyone around me is having babies, both of my cousins ...

The Inspire Q&A: Inspire talks with Kathy Nieder, MD

John2
  • By John2 · New reply February 23, 2014
  • Journal · 36 replies
  • The Inspire Q&A: Inspire talks with Kathy Nieder, MD By John Novack, Communications Director, Inspire Dear members, We at Inspire are pleased to bring you the latest in a series of interviews with people ...

triggers

jane_doe
  • By jane_doe · Posted February 14, 2014
  • Discussion in Post-procedure emotions · 0 replies
  • I had an abortion at 14 weeks. I have lots of medical problems, financial problems and the man who got me pregnant was a one night stand that didn't care to stay around and be supportive. How do you deal ...

Introducing Photos for Inspire

Walter
  • By Walter · New reply February 13, 2014
  • Journal · 180 replies
  • Hello everyone, Today at Inspire we’re excited to announce the launch of a new feature, and it’s one that many of you have requested -- the ability to upload photos to Inspire. You can now add photos ...

It's been 3 years

snw2187
  • By snw2187 · Posted January 25, 2014
  • Discussion in Post-procedure emotions · 0 replies
  • It's been three years since I had the abortion, it still haunts me. Nothing helps and no one really understands. I'm not sure what else to do. It's even messing up my current relationships ...

One day after my abortion

faraha
  • By faraha · New reply January 15, 2014
  • Journal · 4 replies
  • hey im faraha im 22 years old and yesterday jan 4 2014 i had an abortion. I feel horrible and wish i could take it all back. me and my boyfriend first decieded to go along with it because we weren't ready ...

Disapproving eyes

minormajor
  • By minormajor · New reply January 9, 2014
  • Journal · 3 replies
  • So I was at my sisters all week for the holidays and she is the only person in my family that knows about the abortion and openly disapproves of it. I don't talk to her about it, I try not to think about ...

its weird

jkaw
  • By jkaw · New reply January 7, 2014
  • Discussion in Post-procedure emotions · 1 reply
  • Its been 7 months since my abortion I don't feel bad about it but I feel bad that I feel that way.... Also I have been thinking alot about it... I keep thinking was I really ready for a baby...I don't ...

My first post

minormajor
  • By minormajor · New reply December 14, 2013
  • Journal · 3 replies
  • So I consider myself a very strong person emotionally as well as very full of pride. So once I went through with the procedure I just kept waiting and waiting for the side effects and hormones to go away ...

Thank You, From Inspire

Walter
  • By Walter · New reply December 3, 2013
  • Journal · 108 replies
  • Hello everyone, As Thanksgiving approaches, all of us at Inspire would like to take a moment to thank you for being part of our community. While we wish no one had to deal with the serious health issues ...

46 had an abortion because of risk to self/baby

oksun2go
  • By oksun2go · New reply November 8, 2013
  • Journal · 2 replies
  • I am 46 & have a rare neuromuscular disease. I have 2 grown children a son 25 & a daughter that is 24 who has significant health problems. I seperated from their dad, who was very controlling, manipulative ...

Finally getting help..

Gabbii
  • By Gabbii · New reply November 3, 2013
  • Journal · 2 replies
  • Tomorrow is the first time I'm going to speak to anyone about my abortion, after eight months of being depressed and barely leaving my house I've decided to get some help so starting tomorrow I'm seeing ...

Guilt

Gabbii
  • By Gabbii · New reply October 30, 2013
  • Journal · 6 replies
  • So I've never really told people what actually happened, all they know is that my child died, I was pushed into the whole thing so I did lose my baby, just not the way everyone thinks and people dont ...

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