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So on monday i had this sharp pain in my gut were my tumor was when i had cancer i told my dad on wednesday since it was getting worse and i also said that it is harder than it once was. He said to tell my mom didn't tell her then cuz she was in bed but i told her today she said that it was nothing but i don't think that it is nothing what do i do?

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Make sure that if the pain persist that you tell your dad and your mom, AGAIN. Your parents are really the ones that can help you, also, when you go to the doctor, be sure and tell the nurse AND the doctor about any and all pains you may be having.

my parents think that it is nothing so they won't bring me to the doctors and to tell you the truth I am scared and i don't have any family members around me that could help and i don't have a friend that can drive so I am kinda confused as in what do i do?

Please tell someone....a teacher, pastor, neighbor. If this is a new pain and is getting worse, you can't afford to ignore it.

Hi, like I suggested to you before, if your parents are ignoring you and not taking you to the doctor you have to tell someone, a teacher, the school counsler, your teacher, you could even call your local social services and speak to someone there, or if you can have a friend or neighbor take you to the ER. If it really gets bad you can call 911, and have an ambulance take you to the hospital.

Try to talk to your parents again, and if they do not get you to a doctor or the hospital seek help anyway you can.

I wish I could scoop you up and take you myself, this breaks my heart, that you are in pain and your parents are ignoring you, this is a form of child abuse, they are suppose to love and care for you.

Myself being a mother, I just cannot understand this, PLEASE, PLEASE get yourself some help.

Please post back when you get help, and let us know how you are, HUGGS, Karen

Thanks you all for your advice and your worrying but there is no need to be now. I freak out over a little pulled muscle and now ever thing is back to its normal self and I'm happy!

that 1 thing i never ignore when my kids r hurting n never miss their drs appt r when it was time 4 their shots,my kids always came first. i been 2 the drs 3 maybe 4 times in 8 yrs. n the results of not taking care of myself surgery 2 remove a tumors in my large intestive

My parents had good reason not to take me to the doctor

Ce n'était pas très gentil de vous désolée, mais ce n'est pas que mon mal de sensations!

Hi, haven't been on here in a while. Just wanted to check in and see how you are. So happy to here that the pain was only a pulled muscle but please...keep listening to your body...just don't freak out. Don't ignore! You are a tough kid. Keep it up, and live life. Be happy! Tammy

Thanks for being so kind I'm fine i go back on the 12 for a check up so far so good all most to the 4 year mark lol :D

made it and pass the 4 year mark! :D

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